WLFC 16 Secure Attachments & my Magic Mike came back

He voice memoed me 4 months later & I'm sharing my therapy a-ha around why I’m keeping N private.

I have not been to therapy since May.

Here’s me trying to explain that I hit my biggest money goal ever, have a boyfriend who is significantly younger than me, Brad sends me recommended shows I might like to watch with N, annnd I’m going to Church again. Praise be! (listen to my NEW podcast episode with bestie Cortney about goin back to Church below!)

LOL 

What’s interesting is that back in May, I had just started going on dates again. I put myself on Hinge and Bumble to try out this 21st century way of doing things and quickly realized that I VERY rarely wanted to swipe left. 

Good lawd, is this all you got for me? My picky ass is in biiiiig trouble. Why did it seem like my single friends were always going on dates? I could not find anyone that seemed attractive nor interesting enough. And do not give me that BS that looks are not important. On a dating app, it’s mostly what you have to work with, although I do love the Hinge feature that let’s you hear their voice, because if I do not care for your voice, I’m going to struggle. 

Annnnywho 

I want to tell you about my big a-ha from therapy around validation and secure attachments, but first I need to tell you about this jerk from May - the first guy I slept with post my separation. BUCKLE UP.